Smile Please

ANYBODY ROUND HERE GOT A SMILE?  

Some people look like depressives anonymous. Maybe I should start a subgroup for smilers. They say that to run a successful restaurant you need to be able to smile. If you expect to meet somebody you have to smile. I seem to remember that I wrote a post along these lines some time ago. A lot of people sent in comments along the lines of: 'I do so agree with you.' 

I clicked on their profiles and found glum faces. I nearly fell off my chair laughing. So, if you write back saying you agree with me, but you have a glum photo, maybe you could explain why. AND later change it!

PHOTOS OF EYES

LOVELY EYES Most women are looking for a real man, one with a head on his shoulders. And nice eyes! That's the biggest turn on. Lots of studies tell you that animals actually use eyes to turn each other on, reach best orgasms after prolonged eye contact. What's the worst date? The one where the other person won't meet your eyes. And the best date, where the other person just looks into your eyes. The eyes have it. Smiling eyes. That's the biggest turn-on. Eyes. Yum!

Why you should exchange photos early when dating online

I think if you write to a woman and don't send a photo and she has shown even a partial photo you should offer to send a photo eventually/later whatever. You can't envisage somebody without a picture. At least show that you would be willing and able to send a photo if the other person is happy to continue emailing. Or am I wrong? Will a man automatically want to send a picture and find out if she likes him? I think it's better to send and receive photos early on. If the photo is a total disaster, you can anticipate that even strangers who saw you together in a public place would be muttering, 'what the hell do they see in each other!' Better than encourage somebody and then have to find a way of tactfully saying:

'Er, no thanks, I've changed my mind - pity we've both wasted hours on this.''

Yours sincerely, still desperate, but totally mis-matched.'' No photo no answer probably won't bring results, being too aggressive and unfriendly, not encouraging enough for the nervous. I think I'll go with a phrase such as, ' You sound a very nice/interesting person. I'd love to see a picture of you '.

It's very encouraging to be told, 'You look lovely!'