1 First choose the right girl.
A photo shows how pretty she is.
Her profile shows how interesting she is.
2 Is it worthwhile to follow up if no answers?
Yes, she might have been overseas, working, still seeing somebody old, seeing somebody new which didn't work out, or mislaid your initial note but doesn't like to admit it.
But reply positively. remembered her. Suggest positive results. Might still like to drop me a line, maybe meet.
3 Check her location? Is the destination suitable for her?
Don't travel to a far destination to meet her and then find she lives round the corner to you and you could have saved both the travel.
4 Follow up with how much you enjoyed meeting her. If she was OK but not special enough, would suit somebody but not you, admit it but keep her in your circle. You've already agreed not to meet again, suggest you have a friend she might like, and maybe she has a friend you might like. Arrange a foursome in which you meet one of her friends and she meets one of yours. At least you know who might like her. And vice versa.
Keep her on your list for a Xmas party, housewarming, game of bridge, dinner party, club outing, pub get together, reunion, whatever. Get all your friends who do dating to invite back the people they met in the area.
A photo shows how pretty she is.
Her profile shows how interesting she is.
2 Is it worthwhile to follow up if no answers?
Yes, she might have been overseas, working, still seeing somebody old, seeing somebody new which didn't work out, or mislaid your initial note but doesn't like to admit it.
But reply positively. remembered her. Suggest positive results. Might still like to drop me a line, maybe meet.
3 Check her location? Is the destination suitable for her?
Don't travel to a far destination to meet her and then find she lives round the corner to you and you could have saved both the travel.
4 Follow up with how much you enjoyed meeting her. If she was OK but not special enough, would suit somebody but not you, admit it but keep her in your circle. You've already agreed not to meet again, suggest you have a friend she might like, and maybe she has a friend you might like. Arrange a foursome in which you meet one of her friends and she meets one of yours. At least you know who might like her. And vice versa.
Keep her on your list for a Xmas party, housewarming, game of bridge, dinner party, club outing, pub get together, reunion, whatever. Get all your friends who do dating to invite back the people they met in the area.
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